We have a child in heaven now.  Baby Ray Michael stopped growing at 10 weeks, 3 days.  The most consolation I have received was from my friend Jennifer who reminded me that I haven't "lost" a baby.  He is just not where I expected him to be . . . 
For all of you who have been at our side through this tumultuous week - thank you.  I praise God for the gift of good friends and family.  You are all in our prayers.  We love you.
